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I think it's okay...
Just my opinion... but you need to go with your feelings on this. You can request and it's not like having your own in that way...
Think about the fact you may regret not having taken that step.
If you indeed feel strongly about it do it.
We had two biological girls and of course we had to leave it open to what we had and we did so greatfully and lovingly. Interesting we want another girl and are requesting that. We were told me may wait longer though and this is the risk. Some birthmoms don't want to rely on the ultrasound to know what the gender is and they don't want someone saying that they may not want the child if it's the opposite gender. So this is the risk you may take. We are going through an agency and they have two other couples right now requesting girls who have been waiting a few years. It makes me a bit frustrated to think when we get through this home study we will wait and wait but my husband and I have talked about it and we are choosing a girl because we know this is what we are needing to do.
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