pauia
if you did however go international
after h.s.
YOU would actually pick the sex and age of the child
say..china...thats about 12500k i think plus hs etc
guatemala with hs and everything is 24k
you can get help...there are plenty of ways financially
and time frame is 5-12 months , depending on where you go
check out the sites out there
you can use an agency in any city...
www.bbas.org is who i am using
wide horizens was my sister in laws and she was very
happy with them
there are plenty to choose from...
good luck