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heres a thought for you to think about...
why would you withhold your info from your childs aparents if you have a relationship with them, it sounds like you trusted them enough to tell them of your plans, amom was happy and afather was not.
its not your issue, its the afathers issue. by witholding this information from the amom, its just causing more hurt.
dont forget, they are the legal parents of your son. I dont think you should start burning bridges. Try to handle it as an adult, even if the afather, for what ever reason, may feel insecure, again, thats his problem and not yours...time heals.....the one who will get hurt in the end might be your son by never seeing you again, it could start to get ugly. I guess i would suggest you try to understand the afathers insecurities and then try move on from there.
just a suggestion
dadfor2
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