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i guess there are so many unanswered questions, but from it seems, the way you have written, you do have an open relationship with the adoptive parents.....
If they adopted your son already, and a social worker is telling them who they can talk too and who they cant.....i find that kinda odd.
but heres a twist.....i have a friend who adopted 2 siblings. Well, 1 yr later, they got a call and a social worker was on the phone and said "hey, she had another baby, how would you feel about adopting their baby sister too, you can pick her up at the hospital". They were thrilled, and picker her up.
We have two kids, boys, ages 5 and 7, they came from an abusive home, with their mother being mentally ill.
As a dad, i can tell you, i am hoping i never get a call like the ones my friends got, the thougt of having another child in our house, dont think i can do it, believe me, the boys keep us going none stop......but we will if we had too, to keep the siblings together
it could be, as i read between the lines, that you had some problems that you went to counseling for, and i dont know any details, but it sounds like it was the reason you gave up your son for adoption.
now they hear you want a baby, he could be thinking "oh god, i dont want another child".....its just a thought.
as men being more insecure, i dont know about that one. i think its too much of a general statement.
i think he may have his own reasons and its really not up to us to decide what his reasons are why he made that statement.
But let me go back, im still having a problem with the social worker telling them not to talk to you anymore.....i think there is a big piece missing from this thread.....call me coo coo, but something sounds fishy here......but then again, im known to read between the lines, i have to do it for a living
dadfor2
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