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It's just insecurity. I'm not saying I agree with it, but I do understand where it comes from. Unlike people that can give birth, infertile couples have to rely on a twist of fate in order to be parents. In addition, you have everyone and their brother asking you if you will ever try to have "a child of your own" or asking you about your child's "real" parents. Sometimes it can feel like everyone thinks you are just borrowing the child for awhile and that can cause some insecurity. I had to work through this when our son was born. I did a better job of it than my husband. I'm guessing (once again, guessing, lol) that this couple is the same way. The amom worked it through and is secure that the child can love both sets of parents, that you are both the real parents, and that you are not going to try and take the child. The adad may not have done that yet. Give him time, he may work it through. No, it's not his business if you have another child, but I really think he's feeling like if you can't get pregnant then you will want theirs back.
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