[JanetM]

Thanks for your responses. I do know that the Aparents are in quite a bit of conflict right now. The Amom would really like to have a more open relationship with us and he is uncomfortable with it. Thats a battle between the two of us, not us but may be contributing to everything.

Another question... Do you as aparents really realize how very few legal rights we Bparents have after we sign our rights away? In my state we have 30 days to change our minds, after that to overturn things would take like a huge effort which we would likely lose anyhow unless the Aparents were actually unfit. At the time of our visit our son was five months old-4 months past the time we could have changed our minds. I mean from what I've read and understand we would have to prove fraud, misrepresentation, etc. Sure theres always the baby Jessica cases but geeze those are so few out there. Truly do you Aparents generally understand this? I mean if most of you do then why this fear of us trying to take back the child? I'm really not trying to be mean or nasty I really and truly am simply trying to understand.