[BrandyHagz]

There are fewer things in the Adoption Community more debated than what should and shouldn't be said in the 'introduction letter' commonly referred to as the "Dear Birthmother Letter"

So, I thought I would pose this question to the first/birth mothers on this site - and find out what your letter would say, if you were now hoping to adopt.

I hope we can do this without the 'I'd never adopt, so I'd never write one' replies - if you've got nothing to contribute, that's fine...I am just wondering how those who have been on the other side would write their intro letters.

I've given this a TON of thought and I've ever penned one myself, when we were going down that path...

So - what would yours say?