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Maybe this is a separate question, but part of my concern about the way this open adoption thing seems to be going is that it seems that DSS is using it as a way to short-circuit the TPR process. I don't want our FS to be returned to what we have been told is an unsafe birthfamily, but it also doesn't feel right to be negotiating an open adoption agreement based on what the bparents want, rather than what is in the best interest of our FS. And I'm feeling pressure to agree to more than I'm really comfortable with because if I don't, then we might loose at TPR and he'll get sent back.
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