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Some information I was given was to make a few general rules like Obey your parents, Love God, Do your best in school, and don't do drugs. Then other information I was given said that since these children are new to your home and probably had very different experiences at the home(s) they've been in before you might want to give them very specific instruction to take away anxiety, such as "When you wake up you may play in your room until we come get you" or "When you wake up you may knock on our bedroom door to let us know you are awake", etc.
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I think you should show the child around the house this is your room, this is the play room where you can go when you wake up in the morning, this is our bedroom, you will knock before you enter, this is the bathroom, you will knock before you enter, etc are important.
IMO, and I discussed this with the MARE folks, I like making up the rules with the kids after a day or two. That way you can decide what is fair and equitable. Obviously, there are many rules which are not negotiable!
great questions szy, I can't wait to read the other responses!