Why is it
I was talking this over with a friend a few weeks back (TGM) and we were both trying to understand why is so hard for us first/birth mothers to ask for anything from the adoptive parents?
I know in my case I was told that if I wanted visits I would have to be the one to call up and ask for them but it is soooo hard. I get sick just looking at the phone and realizing that I have to pick it up and call them.
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