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I'm in a semi-open situation and have always communicated through the aparents, however, now that my son is grown, it has been stressed to me that all communication should go through my son. This way, he can decide if he wants to share that info with his parents and he has a say in everything and knows what is going on, not that his parents and I are conducting a relationship behind his back and he knows nothing about it. If I were in your shoes, I would try to have a similar arrangement. Maybe tell the amom that you want the primary relationship and communication to be with Courtney and if amom wants to send you emails, Courtney should be aware of this and OK with the communication. You would, of course, need to hear this directly through Courtney, as the amom can say she talked to her and got her OK, when in fact she may not have. Maybe you can respond to amom and say you've gotten in touch with C, and since she is needing some space right now, you feel it would be best if you and amom not communicate w/o C's knowledge.
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