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Just as Ez whas saying. The most importend thing for your doughter te know and to feel is being loved . Her adoption may aways be a toppic for talking, but is is not always number one. in time most thing i talked to my mum about was normal children things.
The toppic adoption is something u will have to deall with conserning her questions about her identity or heratige. and belive me this may become a little harder the older she wil be. The most importend thing is for her te know is that it is always an open subject for her te discuss with you. and to have the suport and freedom to seek her own idenity in time. I don't know if she is from ethnic origen but that may bring more of a struggle in her teens. For now i can only say listen to her questions and answer them as openly and good as u can.
For your self i would recomend to find some quidence aswell, just to give it all a place for you own peace of mind. My mum and i went later in live to a support group for adoptive childeren and parrents and it was verry good to hear we were not alone. Hope there is a group like tihis in your region. I even went to a group of young adopties to talk about bening adopted. i found it very liberating and suportive to speek to others about groingup in a nonbiological family. (this may come later when questions arise on biological matters)
Sonia
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