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Chunkmomma, it sure was great to hear Courtney answered you!!! and let you know she needs a bit more time and also let you know that she was happy you have contacted her and that it did not upset her. that was really very nice.
I'm wondering now, if the a-mom is as controlling as you say......maybe she told Courtney that while she lived under her roof she would have to abide by her rules, which maybe meant no contact with you. so Courtney may feel she needs to get the job in order to be on her own so she can get to know you.
I think when Courtney said she had some personal problems....that may have been it.
But it's strange if that is true, that the a-mom does not realize that she is cutting off her nose to spite her face. why can't she think ahead enough to know how different things could be if she would only put her fear and jealousy aside and just open her heart to this... she may just end up putting Courtney in such a corner that once she finally gets out....too much damage may be done to keep the respect she seems to be demanding. I just don't undersand why the a-mom can't see this. how this is only going to hurt their relationship in the long run if she continues trying to control everyone like this.
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