[Lilly's Mommy]

Just saw that this has been here for a while, so I'll throw out my 2 cents. If he's sleeping well at night, I'd continue with that 9:30 nap and the afternoon nap after your activities. If his night sleeping is getting shorter, then maybe he doesn't need both daytime naps. It sounds like he's tired out by 3:30 though, so he must need it.

It IS hard to plan your day around 2 naps! While I was somewhat bummed to lose one of them (less mommy time), it sure did make outings easier.

Hope things are clearing themselves up. Things are always changing with these little ones aren't they?