[KarenInCa]

I think part of the problem is that it used to be we would all cheer as all the referrals came in. Being 30 day referrals caused at least 5 people to show their referrals, and you knew you were just a few months behind. Now, the forum is very lucky to get one person saying that they have a referral picture to show....and the wait grows. Our hearts are still with our child -who might not even be born yet, but everything seems so far away.
Thanks for posting this thread, Karen. We started the wait when it was 16 months wait, and were told that it was expected to go to 24 month wait....now, one year later we are expecting at least a total of 3 yr wait. It's not so hard on me because we have our first daughter to keep us busy, but the wait time has been a reality check for our 3 yr old daughter, who's also waiting for her baby sister.