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Sonia
Thank you so much for your reply. I am so afraid of doing something wrong and "damaging her". My problem is that I don't want her to have any negative feelings about her adoption at all and I can't stop that. I have to remember that it took me years to come to terms with the fact that I couldn't have children and only when I did, could I be open to adoption. Now I wouldn't trade any biological children for her. I guess I can't expect her to just be alright with it overnight. It just hurts me deeply for her and I wish I could take the pain away. When you were little, did you dwell on the fact that you were adopted all the time or did you just have moments when it was more on your mind and bothered you? Again, thank you for taking the time to respond.
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