my perspective
I think this must be a horrible feeling for you. I do think you need to have an honest conversation with her about how you are feeling. If you can tell her what is bothering you without being critical you may discover the reasons behind the behavior. It may be a misconception she has about how to handle the reunion or any other number of things. You should be able to tell her what you are needing without fear of losing her. Be sure to tell her that you do not want that to happen at all. I hope you can get out of your relationship what you are seeking. I know that when I am finally able to have a reunion with my son... I would never ignore his attempts at communication or fail to reciprocate them. Best of luck
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