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My husbands B-daughter sent an email out of the blue when she was 7 months along lashing out at us and tearing us down for not sending a gift to her baby shower that her friends had for her. ( we had not heard from her in months) We had gotten an invitation in the mail from the friend giving the party just one week before the shower.... and we live almost 2 thousand miles away.....we had planned to send our gifts right after the baby was born to their home and flowers to the hospital etc....and we figured since the baby was not due for awhile we had plenty of time to take our time and shop for special things we wanted to give, and we then explained that to her... also we had just figured baby showers usually are just for the people that live nearby....
and can come to it.... arent they????
but she was soooo angry that we did not send it then, specifically to the shower and really chewed us out, it was the first thing we had heard from her in months! and even though earlier we had sent some lovely handmade ( with Last name embroidered ) baby blankets and other little special things, a couple months previous that she did not even acknowledge after we sent them, until we called her a couple weeks later and asked her ourselves if she had recieved them. she had.
anyway we were just so shocked and puzzled about her behavior towards us.... I mean, who "demands" a gift ?!!! nobody I have known.... whoooa !!
so we thought maybe her hormones were getting the best of her....as it was just so weird !!!
so.... you may want to keep that in mind also....that hormones get a little out of wack during this time.
although it still does not give them a right to be rude and demanding !
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