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Old 05-04-2008, 03:59 PM
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Shell, one of the joys of my reunion with my birthson has been getting to know this adult for the person he is. As I stated earlier, the guilt comes and goes, and I try not to lay it on D, because it's my problem. I do occasionally apologize for something he has inherited from me (including my sometimes sarcastic sense of humor). It has indeed been an adventure. It's been interesting, the link between us is evident to us both. We are not mother/son and yet friend doesn't describe it either. (D just calls it "healthy.") I hope your relationship with your bmom develops in a healthy way too.
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