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I am sorry that you had to endure such aweful treatment. I too had the misfortune of meeting some of the most horrible people that sadly I shared the same DNA. It is really terrible when you are made to feel like it is your fault that you were placed and given up for adoption. I can understand biosibs being somewhat uncomfortable at first, but it is not the adoptees fault. They need to take their anger out on their bmom not you. Please do not allow them to make you feel less than or like a dirty secret. I too was accused of all kinds of things like "trying to claim their mother" as well as the dope addict half sis hitting me up for cash and gifts whenever she could. The minute I found out what the deal was I was able to cut things off no questions asked and have never looked back.
I read on another boiard where some said D N A means Do Not Ask and that is where I am at today. I pray that none of them ever need a kidney or something that I might be able to give them. I ll just refer them back to DNA. I would never discourage anyone from searching or meeting their bios but I WILL warn them and let them know that anything can happen and it isn't going to be all peachy keen, in fact it could be horrendous
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