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Raven...Thank you so much. I know that I can't stop the reunion process at this point, nor do I really want to. However, I can't stand all the battles. it is like this is a game to the amom and my DD is the pawn. And to be honest it is too reminenscent of what went on in that hospital room 18 years ago. My husband absolutely reufuses to give the amom her way on this. He says first and foremost these are my children and she will not dictate to me what she wants where they are concerned. And second, he feels like if we start giving in now will we will set that patteren for the entire relationship that we have with my DD. So my biting the bullet on this is something I am willing to give into, my husband however isnt. And in the end these children are as much his as they are mine, and i won't go against his wishes on this. He is a fantastic father and husband and he is just protecting his babies. He wants my DD to be a part of our family, but in his exact words not at the cost of the emotional well being of children almost half her age. So what to do, what to do? I just don't know
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