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Rose
You've been in and out and tossed up and down by the sound of your post. Whew....no wonder you run out of trust. I think you need to set those personal boundaries. Work out how much you want instead of reacting when she whistles. We all want to be needed and it's so hard to say .....I'll help out but only with as much time / gifts / emotional involvement as I have reserved for you. Set your own personal boundaries and stick to them. (Yeah...I know...Easy to say - Harder to do
And you know ...grandchildren are wonderful. They give another dimension to family.
Ann
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