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Oceans...Both my DD and I were planning on spending time together with my other children and my husband while we were on vacation. That is why my husband wants the meeting to take place before we come. Not to mention the fact that my DD says she desperately wants to come over memorial day weekend. I am not pushing her this was all her idea, she wants to meet the extended family. that is all her, not me. But I do agree with my husband that I don't think it should happen somewhere other than where the other children will be comfortable. I thought I had made it very clear to the amom that she needed to come here when the time came to meet the other children. Now she wants to change it simply bc she doesn't want to share my DD with me, and yes those are her exact words. She wants it done while we are on vacation bc she does not want to send her here. Amom simply just does not want her to come here for a visit at all. This is just all so frustrating and confusing and I really starting to second guess if this is the right time for me with this reunion. I am not a fighter and certainly not a confrontational person. and that is all the amom is. She wants to fight and agrue about everything, and I just can't do it. my DD is the weakest link in my existence and I just can't figure out why the amom is so intent on pushing on that weak spot. It is driving me crazy, to say the very least.
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