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My personal feeling is that if your DD wants contact with you then worst thing the adults can do is to start throwing up roadblocks. To me, it is pretty clear that your DD wants to get to know you. I personally believe that the adults in her life ought to be supporting her. If amom thought she was mature enough to come visit at one point then I'm not sure why she would think that now she isn't...
Bottom line, I don't think your DD's maturity is in questions here...
I would try to keep her out of middle tho. I have to ask. Were you planning on seeing your DD while on vacation or just keeping the vacation about the children you are parenting…. Or is it that amom will come if your DD visits you…
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