Jennasmom1990
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Now is it so wrong for me to want and expect her to uphold her end of the agreement reguardless of where we are going on vacation. My husband does not want them to all meet there bc as he says we go on vacation to decompress not to go into a pressure cooker situation. He thinks that my other children should be extened the same courtesy that the bdaughter was extended in the first meeting.
So I am just wondering how to address this with an amom who "just wants me to go away"? And if she says no, what do I do then?
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I agree with your husband.. If the amom says no.. then I personally would let it go and wait till your birthdaughter is older and wants to know you and your family..
If resentments come up.. then the reunion may end up on rocky ground..
Jackie