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How old is the daughter you raised? Did she know about your placed daughter? Although there have been ups and downs in their relationships, one of my joys is the willingness of all three of my children to have a relationship. It's funny, D automatically becomes big brother (of course he has 2 younger sisters in his (a) family).
I really don't want to "hi-jack" this thread, but to answer:
I have 3 raised children, ages 39,38,33. None of my raised childen knew about my past until the inital contact. The middle child has welcomed my adau. with open arms and they are building a relationship, youngest is so far away and he has accepted this. The oldest is really having problems to the point I feel I don't even want to bring up my bdau's name. I am considering giving her my book"Girls...." to read.
I know in the near future she and I will have to have a real heart to heart.
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