I didn't want to hijack this thread, but I feel the need to comment on something that EZ2LUV said...
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As an adoptee I have never desired any type of relationship with bfamily thank God
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What is your point in stating this? Couldn't you simply have stated that you don't feel the need for a relationship with your bfamily? The "Thank God" at the end was really over the top! Your statement came across to me, as a very blanketed opinion that any/all relationship w/ bfamily is a horrible thing. If you actually had met your bfamily and it had gone wrong and all you were doing was trying to relate to the original poster, I could understand it. However, I can't understand this blanketed, "Thank God". Gah, why do people feel the need to make comments like this?
Also, while you have no desire to have anything to do with your bfamily, I hope that you realize that for some of us adoptees, we would give ANYTHING, to have a relationship with our bparents.