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Originally Posted by luvmylittlegirls

I truly hope she has finally found her peace. I think what she went through with losing her son was horrible and I honestly feel for her. But, on a different group she behaved downright hatefully, delighted in calling parents through adoption horrible names and was seemingly incapable of considering any view besides her own.

I am truly very, very sorry for her family's loss and the grief that they are surely experiencing now, but I personally will not miss her.

And now I am officially the meanest person on the
forums.

Di had many close friends that were adoptive parents, including me. However I always admired her ability to swiftly spot and challenge anyone who was looking down their nose at natural Mothers. I don't think bringing your personal forum wars to her death notice is very appropriate even if you were called out by her. She has a son ,sister, Mother who are all inconsolable as this is the second child her Mother has lost especially. You can say you are the meanest person on the forum(and you did write that in your post) if it gives you a thrill on the backs of their grief, but I offer my support and sympathy to her family in this terrible time.