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Originally Posted by bmomto2_momto2
I would say that there are situations in which you should be a part of events even if they include her birthfamily.
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There is one coming up fairly soon. My son is graduating high shcool in June, and my wife plans on her birth mother and other birth relatives being at our house from 10:00 Saturday morning to about 10:00 Saturday night, preparing for and hosting his graduation party; the birth mother will stay at a hotel Saturday night, then back over to the house on Sunday for brunch, church and an afternoon at the community pool; stay at the hotel Sunday night then on Monday afternoon is the actual graduation.
It's almost like my wife is intentionally ensuring that the birth family is at all of these events so that I have to make a choice.
Do I give in or do I miss these events? (I will be at the graduation. I'll just be somewhere in the crowd instead of sitting with my wife and birth family).