[Oceans]

I myself think that there should be complete honesty. If the goal is reunion then I guess it's better to sugar coat how contact was made and tell a white lie or two. If the goal is a relationship built on trust and respect then I would own what I did and why I did it - apologize and hope for the best.

CM: I'm not really clear on your response so that's just my opinion. Not a flame or anything.

As far as MS goes, I think removing the offensive songs is the way to go. Maybe I'm prudish but I don't care how old my son is, I wouldn't want him listning to those lyrics. Nor would I want him thinking that I approved of such depricating words towards women.

Honestly (and I can not stress this enough) remove the song... You can always put it back on later. You are creating a HORRIBLE first impression and i don't care how far down the playlist it is. I think there is a small chance C will think you're "cool" because of it and it could backfire.

If it were my child, it wouldn't be worth the risk..

But again... Just my opinion.