[JustPeachy]

I agree that you need to take a huge step back, and correct what you started with your husband friending Courtney on Myspace. I don't agree that you need to fess up immediately and make a big drama out of this right now. I don't think it would be a good way to start a reunion. Whether you fess up down the road or not is up to you, but I don't think it's absolutely necessary to bring up at all. I do think you need to take a huge step back, settle your emotions, and approach your daughter when you are in a much better frame of mind and ready to do it directly and honestly. I would highly, highly, highly recommend counseling of some sort. I say this to anyone going through reunion. It's too highly-charged emotionally and things can get out of hand so easily. Chunk, you're too scared right now. Take a step back and breathe................you want to approach your reunion from a position of strength, not fear and desperation.

Edited to add: I somehow skipped over the last page, and didn't realize that Chunk had gotten in touch again with Courtney before I posted this message. I need to be more awake when I come on here!