Hi Sarah!
You're trying to be realistic about your pregnancy without knowing enough information so I'll start by asking you some questions. Did you finish high school? Have you ever had a job? What reaction does your family have? Why do you think you can not emotionally care for your child? Can you spend time with some mothers and get their advice?
I agree with the replies from ISW, suzherm, and dpen. Your emotions will change constantly while you're pregnant and after you've had your child(ren) and that's perfectly fine. My advice to you is be aware that the erroneously picture-perfect facade of adoption is just that: erroneously picture-perfect. Things can go painfully, irrevocably, and regretfully wrong especially if you are not informed. You should visit
www.cubirthparents.org and find the contact for your region. You should ask that contact if you can speak with both adoptive and birth parent members who can try to give you both sides of the picture. Neither the adoption agency/lawyer nor any of their employees will completely inform you. Also, check out the "Things I Wish I Would Have Known" link on the website
www.cubirthparents.org/links.htm. In fact, I suggest you read this excellent article by Heather Lowe and then re-read frequently.
Most of all: don't sign any paperwork when you are in the hospital. You do have rights. In fact, you should consider taking your child home. You may get home with your child(ren) and have a better idea of what you want from an adoption.
Adoption was my choice and I deeply regret it now. Feel free to contact me.
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