[copper653]

I was an only child and I did ask my parents for a younger sibling as a child. We moved in the third grade and I think that changed my personality alot and made me want a sibling to play with. I did alot of things most kids my age didn't get to due since my parents didn't have the extra expense of another child. Which is what I would like to offer our dd (or children), so it is a hard decision.

My dh is the oldest of three, two younger sisters, and had a enjoyable childhood picking on them.

We had original wanted two also, but right now I am not ready to bring another child into the family. Like MissyAmom China said though it is hard because I might not feel this way in a year and who knows what the adoption situation could be then. So I think we are going to wait and see how things go over the next yr.