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at 13 you should wait and speak to the child
i wouldn't advocate for custody versus adoption because in my state it leaves myself open to the parents bringing me to court whenever they want and me having to pay a lawyer, also @ 13 the child would be eligible for subsidy to @ least 21. including medical benefits, therapy, and other things she may need thru the state with custody you may be eligible for medicaid or to put her on your coverage. plus adoption thru the state gives children here a chance to go to college. custody is not permanent the parents have the right and say in how their child is raised in NYC, as far as schools, medical procedures, religion. i wouldn't advocate for it guardianship gives you a lil more say with the child.
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