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JoJo,
I am sorry that you are having this issue with your birthson. I am a 27 year old adoptee and I feel the same way he does. I hope you can understand this. I was adopted when i was a few days old. I have always known my adoptive parents to be my parents. I was always taught that your mom and dad and family are those who love you and take care of you, they are the ones that will be there everyday of my life to stand behind me. I have never had intentions of meeting my birth parents even though in my case it was not their decision to put me up for adoption. I too have just been interested in getting my medicals. In some way I do want to meet them just to see if someone else in this world looks like me or acts like me or if I have siblings. However, they will never be my family who has been with me the last 27 years. It is hard to grow a bond with a someone that has always been a stranger to you.
Best of luck to you.
Stephanie
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