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Originally Posted by Mockingbird
Think your brother knows anything? Wouldn't it be up to him to invite you?--not your mother?
Or possibly that your mother's husband has anything to do with it?
Spouses sometimes get their "noses out of joint" as this sort of relationship kind of leaves them "odd-man out" and can create a jealousy. It also is a reminder to the husband that their wife was intimate with someone else before them (for us older people anyway--younger ones, not so much of an issue). Maybe he views you as competition for "his" children. Just a thought.
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Thanks for your thoughts. Well, my brother is my sisters twin. Its my understanding he didn't talk to my sister about his wedding either. Its also my understanding she was asked if she was going to attend in an email from our mother. I'm sad he didn't think to communicate with me. When my kids are around him he is an awesome theatrical caring UNCLE. My boys love him. I've kept communicating with him to no positive end. I picked the wrong signal.
My mother's second husband (not father to my half siblings) has a role. My mother was intimate with her first husband more than her high school fling with my dad. Maybe he does view me as competition for his children. He has two children from his first marriage...they both are adults.