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It seems my bdad never knew he fathered me. Now he is elderly and has been married for many many years to someone he met long after I was born. He doesn't want his life disrupted and I can understand that.
I only mention my situation so that you can know that there is another scenario. I would have loved for my bdad to have welcomed me with open arms but that isn't going to happen.
I also agree that you will never know if you don't try. I know I HAD to try and there is some peace and closure in knowing that I've done everything I possibly could.
Snuffie
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