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To contact birthfather, or not?
Hello.
I met my biological mother a couple of years ago, and she informed me that my biological father doesn't know that she ever had a baby. I have his name, and thanks to the Internet, I also have his address. I have been torn for quite some time now - do I let him know I exist, or not?
If I do tell him, I fear that I'll be putting a strain on the relationship he currently has with his wife (and children, if he has any.) But at the same time, I wonder if it is his right to know that he has an adult child. Has anyone dealt with this situation? What advice do you have?
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