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It would upset me greatly if I found out my son grew up with aparents who were not good parents. I realize that "good parents" is relative, and no parent is perfect. I'm not expecting perfection, just that he had a stable upbringing, and was not abused or neglected in any way. I know there can be things that go on behind closed doors that you don't read about in updates or letters (I have semi-open), but from what I do know about my son's family, I'm very happy with how he was raised. If I found out things were not as they seemed on paper, I would want to know, but I would definitely need time to process this. I think the knowledge would overwhelm me and upset me greatly if something terrible did happen. Still, I'd want the truth, when/if my son was ready to disclose that to me.
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