[birthmomof3]

Ok well here it is my son who was with me almost 4 years I placed for open adoption with my brother and sister in law they have no other kids because they are unable to get pregnant... well anyhow he has been gone 3 years and about 1 year ago I seen him and my brother and sis in law they came from out of state... Well my son about 5 1/2 at the time said to me to touch his weiner which is very in apropriate to me so I told him dont say that well he kept trying but I said no thats not good all all and he stoped after about 3 times!!!! Well they were leaving right after that to go back to their home in another state... So I ddi not know what to do I stressed and stressed and finally that night I told my mother what happened so I told her I wanted to talk to my theripist before I told my brother which is what I did and my theripist said she had to report it incase there was abuse going on and she told me to tell my brother so they would not be shocked so I did well he was very mad and so was my sis in law they said they work with kids and they may have my son taken from them while investigation was taken place because that is how there state does it and then they said because of this they may not get to adopt again!!!! Well I told my brother as I had before he went to live with them that he was touched by a 9 year old boy and to just ask him now and then if he has touched andone or if anyone has touched him!!! Thats how I found out he had been touched I guess mothers instinck!!! Which sucks cause he is not mine anymore to care for and protect!!! Well to say the least it is almost a year later they still have him and they never sent him to theripy or anything but I dont get to talk to my son because My brother wants me to apoligize to my sis in law for all the trouble but I dont feel I should Because I am not sorry for watching out for my son who is a innocent little boy!!! What should I do and did I do the right thing?????