[mandirenee]

I'm sorry that your mom is not as supportive as you would hope.

We had 3 showers while waiting for our son. Why not? We knew that if this situation didn't work out, we would still have a baby at some point.

I had waited so long for my baby that I wanted to celebrate. We have showers for moms whose babies may not live long after delivery - nothing is guaranteed. Enjoy the moment as much as you can. I know there are alot of people who say "no" showers and that's what works for them. everyone is different.