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You know as I open my adoption more and more I hope Iam doing the right thing because let's face it , apparently it took the "system" DECADES to decided most (not all) closed adoptions were not in the best interest of the child. So this NEW ERA way has not stood the test of time and our great great grandchildren may someday be sitting at their computers communicating to others that have adopted and it may go something like this "Yes I remember my great grandma told me that OA use to be the normal, I can't imagine that in todays world" Just as years ago those involved in adoption probably could not conceive the ideal of how someday people involved in adoption MIGHT ACTUALLY KNOW THE INVOLVED PARTIES.. Only time can answer such questions. But my personal feelings are that it all depends on the individual situation.
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