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Originally Posted by agathaj
I think from what you have written is that when you reunited with your bmother she expected you to want to walk back into her life and be fully embraced by bsiblings and herself. But you didn't. Instead you had your own agenda for the reunion AND she had hers.
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Forgive me if I am wrong, Ali, but it seems to me from what you wrote below that your expectations of the reunion were a direct result of what was offered to you by your birthmom when you first met her.
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Was it too hard because you already have a family? I was told from the very beginning that you ALL were searching for me and would accept me. Why did you lie to me, why did you open up your hearts to me to turn your back on me 5 years later?
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If this is the case, it is not a matter of "different agendas", rather you were proceding based on what she told you.