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I wonder if semi - open would be the best route to go. With letters and pictures to both b-families and to adoptees. I know that an open adoption certainly is not for everyone, but having some form of contact through letters or e-mails for bparents and ocasional pictures would ease some of the questions they may have, about the child they reliquished. For the adoptee having facts about bfamily may also answer some of their questions. In my opinion it just seems like the best option to go with. Then again I'm sure that this is not a solution for all but maybe for some... I don't know I may be rambling or just thinking out loud...... It seems for so many of us the grass is always greener on the other side...JMO
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