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Originally Posted by belleinblue1978
Sorry Crick, that is the irritated me that feels like the adopted me never gets listened to, which has been happening again lately. I didn't mean to take it out on you.
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Gotcha. I started this whole thing because at times I don't think I'm listened to as a "true" parent because I am in a closed adoption and I'm ruining their lives. That I have no care in the world for their other parents or any realization that not having contact can later be a real issue, that I"m not educated or truly understand adoption etc. I'm an inferior parent in some eyes. Thus all the questions and hoping to have a good discussion with everyone here. I know we won't all agree and I don't have an issue with that at all.
I think you said something similar on another thread...about not being listened to because you share more than one triad position. I can see that frustration and think we all have that at times. Course...are you sure it's just not because you are an ungrateful disloyal adoptee that is causing the frustration?
I know mine must stem from the fact that I stole my children. (Disclaimer to all....I'm soooo kidding!)