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Originally Posted by Mothertoo3
How long must us Adoptee's have to wait for the Birthparents to work out there emotions? Why are we expected to suffer the reminance of there emotions from so long ago?
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I think the real issue here is your birthmom needing to separate her emotions from how she treats you. Having a difficult time sorting through the fluvia of adoption does
not give her permission to treat you badly. There is a certain amount of respectful interchange that needs to be present in any relationship for it to exist. You don't need to be on the short end of her process. It sounds to me like she has stepped ver the line one too many times. Distance might be the only thing that helps her.