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It happens because you can put "unknown" on the birth cert in regards to a father, but not a mother...
I would send an introductory letter explaining your version of the story and ask her questions about herself that you wanted to know. What does she like? what are her plans for her future...etc...
Congratulations...
I don't believe the dad on my dd's OBC is correct...and I wonder if this other guy even knows he has a bdaughter...I plan on finding him once my dd is older (as I believe the bio cert dad and the potential bdad BOTH wouldn't be a positive influence on her)
Lots of sexual predators in all 3 families, mental illness, mafia connections etc... I'd just rather wait until she's more of an adult that could take care of herself if she had to....
But I really am hoping and praying they'll be decent people when she's older.
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