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Are you currently in therapy? If not it would probably be a good idea.
Also, even those of us without bonding issues have had to learn the phrase "fake it till ya make it" I did it, it took me a bit to get past the overwhelmingness of the adoption (and the lack of sleep) to get to loving my children.
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Adoptive mom to two sisters ages 7 & 10 from PA Fostercare
10/18/04 App Submitted
11/6/04 Adoption classes completed!
12/8/04, 1/13 & 1/27/05 Homestudies completed
3/15/05 Approved Homestudy
"S" and "C" to moved in 6/17/05!
TPRed 1/5/06
ADOPTED 7/11/06! (at age 5 & 8)
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