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Old 04-12-2008, 07:10 AM
Jackiejdajda Jackiejdajda is offline
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I remember reading a post written by Dr Art here on a.com many years ago..

An adoptee was writing about her unhappiness and how she was going to search for the birthparents in order to sort..
He wrote that she needs to sort her home life first.. then seek.
He had a name for the home life.. the attachment.. I can not remember it and cannot find the original post.. or thread..

But I believe it comes to a place that says we are responsible for ourselves.. and if we have a medical disorder that is physical then so be it.. that is the stuff of our life and needs to be accepted or worked on or whatever..

Julie this is so interesting.. coming from your unique angle..

Jackie
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