Originally Posted By
Laura
I'm just starting on the road to adoption myself, I'm not an expert by any means. I'm thinking that your husband will have a hard time unless he can understand and agree with your desires. I've heard that open adoptions are becoming more common. Perhaps you could choose a family who is willing to have an open adoption and let you be a part of your birth child's life. You'd have to match up with a couple who shared your ideas about raising children or I'd think it would be difficult, but if you found the right couple, maybe that would be easier for your husband.
Good luck to you, whatever you decide, my prayers are with you.
Laura
laurae@qwest.net